Feb 12, 2008 #2 Do you really love him? As one of my friends put it, “I die when I stop learning.” There definitely is a skill + art + luck for getting the right people in our corner. Digitized at 78 revolutions per minute. What would you do if you were me? I listen with an open mind, as they tell me what they might do if they had my skills, my experience, my capabilities, and my situation.  Sometimes it re-affirms I’m making the most of what I’ve got.  other times, it opens my eyes to possibilities I never imagined. I’d very much love to ride your bike if you asked me to, first to teach you what more you can do with it, and secondly for myself to learn new tricks if I can! i mean from your heart? Have caution vs fear. What Would You Do About You (If You Were Me) Lyrics: What would you do about you / If you were me / Follow your heart or your head / Which would it be? 😉. @ Lance — Thank you. During my day job, I synthesize a lot of ideas and feedback, so I’ve learned to put feedback on context … the source, the perspective, carry the useful forward … etc. Currently I am 21 with no job experience, not going to college or uni, been at home gaming the past years, I m not a likable person, I m very quiet, people seem to be pissed off about it everywhere I go. These were recorded flat and then also equalized with Turnover: 400.0, Rolloff: -12.0. Our clients want and need real advice from someone they trust and believe in. I love the story you’ve shared about your bike, and relating that to today. Within each of us is a unique set of capabilities, persuasions and passions and no one else can manifest those to create the magnificent blend resulting from living authentically. thanks J.D, keep up the good work 🙂. I can see some people in my life that in sharing a problem I have they can give me ideas that I may not have thought up, but sometimes there can also be the support behind something that can also be quite nice too. It becomes a trusted board of advisors. In our latest buying guide we've selected some cameras that might be a bit older but still offer a lot of bang for the buck. Everything you did was girly. I know I am late to this post so apologies for the delay. With your own identity, this can be even more an issue since you can’t buy a new one. I really hate being stagnant on my programming skills. When she was suffering with her headache she told me she loved me and my sister, but because I didn’t want to scare her I said “I know, but you’re going to be fine.” r.mendel@lrz.tum.de I think it’s also about always looking at feedback as input. When I was a kid, I had a bike that I thought I could ride pretty well.  After all, it was my bike and I rode it every day.  I knew its quirks, I knew its strengths, I knew its weaknesses.  Or so I thought.  One day, a friend asked to try my bike. One of my mentors told me it’s important to periodically surprise people 🙂, @ Liz — It’s like adding to a buffet of possibilities and choosing whatever floats your boat 🙂, @ Jimmy — Heck, I’m with you … “Teach me!”. This person could have also taken the bike and broken it. What would I do if I were You? Loved this post. That is stability which a lot of people don't have. Wow, what a great example of realizing that at times we remain limited in our outlook simply because we don’t know what else is possible. Making changes based on that advice can be more risky, but having a good internal process helps with this. They are terrified to ever be wrong. Some people take pleasure in bringing others down so I always avoid such people. A good reminder that every person knows something we don’t, and asking for some feedback is a good way to grow. On this test, you choose between several options of what you would do in given situations, such as if you were being robbed, or were trapped in a building that was on fire, or had farted in public (gasp! But I also think it’s equally important to ask: The world goes round with all our ideas and there’s always another angle somewhere … Hilary, PS I did take on board your offer! If you're looking for a high-quality camera, you don't need to spend a ton of cash, nor do you need to buy the latest and greatest new product on the market. I agree with the comments above: open-mindedness, learning, asking the right questions to the right people and taking what matters in a given context. But obviously being fear-based does not help either. You've been at the same job for 9 years. 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